We must look for Brians presence in new and different ways. I have preached the funeral for a six-year-old boy who died on the day after Christmas. 1998. *But also take a look forward: What do you place your hope in for the future? Im sure that you made someones day. You, Angela and Eddie, are that legacy, a living legacy. A few years later, a boy arrived. Tell about the joys and laughter, the sorrows and losses, the successes and failures. All of our philosophies, theologies, spiritualities, feelings warm and cold only get us so far and then each of us has to confront the fact that we dont really know how to feel or what to think. The good news of Jesus Christ looks at death, looks square at it and refrains from offering an explanation, or assigning responsibility, or making sense of a loss too deep for words. Is this a cause for celebration or a funeral service? If he chooses to take him, we're okay." He has promised that we will never travel it alone. In life, things come at us that we cannot control. Your email address will not be published. How could God let this happen? And stand on the truth that God loves you. Notice, Jesus didnt scold the sisters for their words. not a subject many people are comfortable with, what do you say in a sympathy message to a murder victims, your ministry to the bereaved baylor edu . He had something in his mind and in his heart. Your email address will not be published. Featuring Jen Wilkin, Jennifer Rothschild, Kristi McLelland, and more! Why did this happen as it did to Angela and Eddie, to Nancy, to all of us? For example, life may seem like its all about the destination when youre living through your college years and feeling like your future will be better than it was in high schoolbut then comes that first job interview after graduation and you realize that maybe things arent so simple after all! In that sudden storm, Jesus did an astounding thing. It means we must listen with the ears of our heart. He is the father of all evil. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. Do you care? Depression gave way to celebration. These deaths raise serious questions in our hearts and minds. *At times like this, many people ask, "Why?" John Piper Aug 10, 2014. We do not deny that death is real, that when a person dies they really die and there is a real experience of loss, of grief, of pain. On a day with so much uncertainty surrounding it, we can have good hope and confidence that this triumph is the truth of her life, because she spent her life preparing to follow Jesus in her death. ii. I wish I had words for you and for me. You generally have a week to prepare; however, when it comes to funeral services and memorial services, time is limited because funerals are usually unexpected. What a truly beautiful and comforting sermon as the grief of an unexpected loss of a loved one seems so inexplicable. Its said that Jesus never performed a funeral. I think many of us bring a second question to this day. I have to believe that life has changed, not ended. This was in June of 2021. *In John 3:16, the Bible says: "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.". This story tells another helpful truth: storms don't last forever. And as painful as it is, in some way, I hope it always is. Life has changed, not ended. And that's the relationship the Heavenly Father wants to have with all of us. The trauma team did their best. The devil tries to hurt us every way he can. Many of his miracles and much of his ministry took place here. We must not deny it, we cannot defy it. Profound anger and a desire for revenge is only natural as we seek to come to grips with this terrible tragedy and to come to grips with the reality of it all. God's Word calls His Spirit the "Comforter," and over time, He will give us the comfort we need in life. This sermon is Chapter 8 of A Minister's Treasury of Funeral and Memorial Messages by Jim Henry, former pastor of First Baptist Church Orlando, Florida Scriptures: Mark 4:35-41 Introduction The Sea of Galilee is a sparkling jewel in the northern part of Israel. God requires absolute perfection from each person who ever lives. They knew he had the power to heal the sick and cast out demons, but their faith trembled at this unexpected turn of events. Download Instructions Every one of us, myself included, has felt the desire for Domonique and Roberts killers to not only be brought to justice but to suffer death as they did. We're on a mission to change that. My prayers are with you. Its also a time for us to say good-bye to James. a. Whatevery style is chosen, the situaltion and the needs of the people must be kept central. Then someone thought about a phrase that David often used. Behind every support specialist, Bible study editor, graphic designer, and accountant is a Sunday School teacher, kids volunteer, or small group leader. Someone has said, "No water can swallow the ship where lies, the master of heaven, and earth, and skies." It is significant that just hours after Christians across this city and world commemorated the scourging, crucifixion and death of Jesus on the cross that Domonique and Robert were gunned down by the very same kind of violence and sin that put Jesus on the cross in the first place. *My wife's mother was 94 when she passed away last year, but my dad and my brother both died at the age of 55. If a pastor is called to preach a funeral sermon, it is important that the words chosen for the occasion are both comforting and uplifting. When choosing funeral flowers, its important to take into account the season in which they will be displayed. God seems to be silent when we long for a word. The Gospel announces a Savior who makes new life available free to us because it comes at such a cost to him. He prays for you in a greater way than he ever could on earth. (2), *Please take heart today in the words that helped Sue so much: "When God conceals His purposes, -- keep living on His promises.". John 14:1-6. Copyright 2003-2023 | Outreach, Inc., All rights reserved. I am so very sorry for your loss. It demonstrates how we wanted, how we expected Eddie to continue as our companion on lifes journey for many, many years to come. *We are gathered together in loving memory of John Smith. Death can also be viewed as part of Gods plan for people who have rejected HimHis will being done according to His sovereign choice (Romans 8:28-30). He turned to walk away while family and friends stood in stunned silence. Ecclesiastes 7:2, John 11:17, John 11:17-44, This sermon is profound .Am touched by it .To night am going to preach at a funeral vigil for a brother who tragically end his life with a motorcycle rider on Sunday last week. Im sure that, like every parent, he struggled with the best way to express his love. Aug 10, 2014. Funeral sermons are always a huge part of the grieving process. God gave him to us. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. They had seen Jesus do mighty things in recent days. In this there is suffering, and for that suffering it is okay to mourn. God has not promised us a safe journey. Below the homily is a video of Msgr. Angela and Eddie, I speak to you not simply as your pastor, this guy who dresses up funny on Sundays, or an adult, a person with some gray hair and lots of years on him. Then another joined them. I will ask it more than once. It offers us no lasting relief and it makes us no better than the murderers. Enter your email address and we will send you a link to reset your password. It gave me comfort and I trust it did for the bereaved family too. "Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear" (Isa. . We want rationality, cause and effect, a fair universe, even if we must bear the guilt ourselves. 59:1). Each of these recollections is a treasure, and a treasure we do well to share. David wrote this Psalm from personal experience because he too was a shepherd. And he was an exiled prisoner. But the problem is that many times we can't find the answer to that question. Please see below for details. My son was 21 years old and in the U.S. Navy when he took his life. Its not a matter of IF well die, but only when. Life is a journey, not a destination. If God takes him, he's okay. It was beautiful, comforting, and spot on. Janice, I gained even more clarity about this when you told me that you all had chosen John 14 for todays gospel, that story about the many rooms in the Fathers house and Jesus promises to prepare a place for us and to be with us in that place. We live in a time now that seems to me more emotionally honest. And He will help you. If you dont feel like delivering a sermon, or if you feel intimidated by this task, dont worry about it! He was immediately rushed to the hospital. There is pain, loss, brokenness and death in all of our lives. The Psalmist says in Psalm 73:26-28 that it is good for us to be near God, even though he cannot see Gods face because of his sinfulness. Funeral sermons are now more often referred to as eulogies. And He will comfort us in our grief. On a beautiful spring day which God has given us and with signs of new life springing all around us in the flowers and trees and the birds and animals and their newborns, and we find ourselves gripped by the darkness of death. The same freedom that allows us to choose life and love and forgiveness also allows us to choose death and hate. But one day she got a card from a friend that said: "When God conceals His purposes, -- keep living on His promises. The St. Paul Police Department said . Thank you Chester. He simply passed from this life to the next life. *There is only one way for us to get ready, and that is by trusting in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. Thus, this is a good time to ask ourselves some basic questions. It has been the mistaken notion of many that if a person is a faithful follower of Jesus, he or she is protected from the troubles of life. For us, there must be another way. (John Smith is a fictitious name.). Christ stripped death of its final say in human life. Free shipping on books, Bibles, gifts, VBS, and church supplies of $50 or more. Psalm 25:6-7, Psalm 33:5, Psalm 34:8, James 1:17. Its there with the Angels, and Archangels, and all the company of heaven. When Jesus came to the grave he could have said something extremely profound. God answered them after several childless years with a girl. It is helpful if these objects are placed on display somewhere close enough where guests can easily see them without having to strain or crouch down low just so they could observe something small enough that may not seem worth noticing otherwise! When the sudden comes in our lives, the Sovereign Savior is looking for us to look at him. You can browse through our collection of funeral sermons by topic or by title. Those stories are not simply words, they create and call forth presence. Murder crosses into numerous death categories, all of which carry serious emotional and psychological obstacles to overcome. The point? Thank you Beverly. He did not avoid it, he did not pretend at it. He had a great future ahead. Longing for justice and lusting for revenge are two different things. We waited and hopednow our God is here. [Isaiah 25:9 CEV] Yes, this good news of Jesus: we hear it and believe it, and it is good news now. We cant. Brothers and sisters should not be confronted with the death of one of their own at such a young age, long before the mysteries of death and such senseless violence can be comprehended. We know all too well that sin and violence still stain our world, our city and our lives and today is a poignant reminder of that. Theres something of your father in each of you: in your appearance, in how you act, in what you say. Joseph went to prison. Enter your email address and we will send you a link to reset your password. This Son of God tastes death, drains it to the dregs, for the sake of us and all people. When Jesus' boat started across the lake, "there were also other boats with him" (v. 36). Thank you for sharing this. I sincerely appreciate your words and am glad you found the words calming and comforting. It is not large. Funeral for Unexpected Death Bob Ingle Judges 6:13 Anytime someone as young and as vibrant as Sean dies, it is an absolute shock. How can we know the way when death shatters our world and nothing makes sense anymore? Second, we are there to comfort the grieving. Im grateful for you and Gary. Tragically, he fell on that knife, and it went into his heart. Third, we extend hope to those who are alive by clearly articulating God's path for eternal life. Jesus made his headquarters here. Brian chose a room in the Fathers house over a bed in a hospital. I would never want to forget or get over it. Questions about a God who allows something like this to happen. What happens is something better, far better. Navigating the challenges and joys of ministry life. Order Curriculum, Literature, and Church Supplies, by Pastor Jim Henry on Wednesday, January 01, 2014 at 6:00 AM. Even though it may come after a long season of illness, even though there may be a sense of its closeness, death always catches us off guard, always comes as a surprise. This sermon was clearly divinely inspired. The people who took Domonique and Robert from us must not be allowed to take our lives and our souls too. You can always ask someone else to do it for you (and let them know ahead of time). Yet, even in the context of a funeral, we remember what Ezekiel learned: God's breath suffocates death. I lost my son years back, and grief was really hitting me hard. Summary: A Memorial Service I spoke at for a young man who died tragically at the age of 21 1 2 Next (James died of an overdose of drugs at the age of 21. Most people in the world have no experience of lasting joy in their lives. That was truly beautiful! Conference Message. Applause and cheering broke out. Nothing can explain away a tragedy like this. Were in this great public building with all these people, and suddenly its as though were deep underground in a cavern, a place so dark you cant see the hand in front of your face. Quietly, but strong enough to be heard, he said, "Our Lord reigns." 2 Timothy 3:10-11. How can we know the way?. That means we must learn to listen, to see, and to speak differently. Nobody can take away your grief, but perhaps we can help you make it easier to bear as you make your way to a new place of contentment. Somebody who promises me the opposite shore of death because hes been there and come back. God's plan and purpose for our loved one and for our lives are not subject to whims, accidents, circumstances, illnesses, and evil. *Indicated Required Field See ourPrivacy Policy. Brians love, his life, and his presence are as real today as before he died. It's more like a lake than what we think of as a sea. Thank you Janice. Fear can immobilize us as it did Jesus' companions. The six-year-old came running into the room, and jumped on the bed. Finally, storms remind us that the Sovereign of the Sudden is in control (v. 41). Your Bible study. Brian was forty-three years old when he died and is survived by his parents and two brothers. Soon the packed sanctuary was filled with hundreds of voices, chanting together on their feet, "Our Lord reigns!" We see this truth many places in God's Word, such as the Lord's Prayer. We must go back to lives in which there is a fresh and painful absence. He then asked a penetrating question, "Why are you so afraid?" Tell how, as I read on Facebook, Brian could in one breath bless you and in the next cuss you. Rather than waiting until after someone has passed away to look for funeral sermons, it would be wise to start planning ahead now. At times, we dont know what to say. SermonSearch.com is an online resource for sermon outlines and preaching ideas. God wants to have a personal relationship with us. What I do know is that it is not supposed to be like this. i. Why did this happen to a gracious, energetic man who had so much to live for, whose life was starting to come together in new ways? I need you to trust me and work with me on what I am going to say next. Sometimes, even in the middle of a message, Watson would shout, "Our Lord reigns!" This is the gospel and the heart of Christianity: that death the unstoppable, death the incomprehensible has been brought low and made to submit to Jesus. If only I had figured it out I couldve done something. Certainly there were things your father wanted to do on earth that he was not given the time to do. Christians do not get out of death; we do not pretend at it. Those stories are not just a recollection of past events, a recitation of history. While I believe the truth of those words and the strength of Gods love I also know those words do not take away the grief, dry the tears, or answer the questions we bring today. In addition: sometimes challenges are so painful they feel impossible to overcome; other times they can feel more like challenges than anything elseand thus provide opportunities for growth rather than obstacles standing between us and our goals . He had a supportive, loving family. And I say all of this to say that we have no idea when we will leave this world. Their voices and our voices become one voice offering praise and thanksgiving to the God who creates and gives life, the God who renews and heals life, the God whose love overcomes death. Thoughts here are some I never heard before in all the funerals Ive attended, and I wish I had because I think I might have benefitted from them. There are also many other difficult circumstances we may encounter. We cant. Maybe we are told that what afflicts us, this grief that has attached to it a beloved name and face, is part of the human condition, evidence of a flawed universe, a world radically incomplete. But gathered here today we can share our love and concern for each other. Amen & amen. Grief, as Im sure you know, is a long slow journey. And we can look into God's Word for the comfort and guidance we need. *The death of someone we love is never easy. Words seem completely inadequate. Its not supposed to be like this. What does one say when we face the brutal murder of two people so young? Death remains that part of the human story that resists our attempts to control, our attempts to understand. Live your lives well. Is God real in our lives? 2009-2023 Michael K. 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